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6 Ways To Show Yourself Some Lovin, Coz You Deserve It

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6 Ways To Show Yourself Some Lovin', Coz You Deserve It

Self-love can mean many things to many people. It could be a long walk after dinner. It could be dancing naked in the mirror. It could be turning off the alarm and letting yourself sleep the heck in. 

If you're struggling to find downtime, here's a bunch of easy and accessible ways to treat yourself:

Listen to erotic audio stories 

That’s right boys and girls, erotic audio stories. If you’re looking for a porn alternative that feels classy as hell but will still turn you on – look no further than Dipsea. This app is packed with different stories suited to different tastes. You’ve got queer stories, BDSM stories, sex with your ex stories, threesome stories. Just set yourself up somewhere comfy, chuck on your headphones and go to pleasureville. 

Get grooming 

Whether your vibe is a manicure, a pedicure, a weekly face mask or indulging in some beard oil, getting your groom on is a delightful way to give yourself some loving. All too often we take our bodies for granted, so it’s high time we showed them TLC. Take a long bath, soak those weary bones and just take yourself to pampertown. 

Cook your favourite meal 

Body shaming and diet culture be damned! We want you to think of your dream three course dinner (we’re talking entree, main and dessert) and make it for yourself. Give it a crack. Lick the spoon. Have double helpings. Feed your soul. And don’t you dare feel guilty about it.

Try kundalini yoga 

Kundalini yoga is all about awakening your sexual energy through movement, breathwork and chanting. It’s a full body practice designed to help you release any blocked chakras, embrace your divine feminine and have you feeling gooooood. Practicing kundalini has been shown to reduce stress and anxiety, improve cognition, and boost self-perception. 

Learn self -massage 

As humans, we crave physical touch. But it doesn’t always have to come from another person. If you’re single, learning how to self-massage can actually be a super relaxing way to show yourself love. Self-massage can also have physical benefits, like lymphatic drainage and myofascial release. 

Dance, dance, dance 

For real, dance like nobody’s watching. Just close the curtains, chuck on your favourite tune and let loose. Or, if you’re feeling spicy, why not learn a sexy new move or three? Kayla Brenda is here to teach you some ultra feminine moves that will have you embracing your inner goddess.